A Man of Value

Men say they want a woman of value

But as soon as you say you not given it up they stop calling you

I am a lady of quality and I am past that

I am not being treated like a stray cat

Going from place to place to get fed

I depend on Jesus for my daily bread

Jumpin from one bed to another,  I did that

When I didn’t know my worth.

But I won’t sell myself short for a man of no worth

You know the kind, looking for a woman to be the one to provide

He has no goals or aspirations, spreading his seed over many nations

He has no belief in nothing else and sells drugs to get wealth.

Collect call caller checking me!  Naw Dawg Jesus Handles me!

Walking down the street with his pants sagging

Just in search of another bad habit,

Looking for a hoe to screw with every erection

Going in them raw with no discretion

No no no that’s not me

And that’s not a man I want to see!

I want a man with manners and class

But he won’t be a sucker, he can still kick ass!

With his words, and his strength of character.

He not intimidated that his lady got brain matter.

He won’t need to sleep around cause he know no matter what

His lady is holding it down.  Yes he got that grown man swagger.

And how many times he can cheat is not even on his platter.

Responsibility and provider is in his jeans genes if you know what that means.

He don’t need 10lb’s of bling bling to show he is a king

One look in his eyes shows he is the real thing.

He doesn’t need to curse every word to express himself

His vocabulary will skin the pelt from anyone who questions him

I am not his bitch unless I wanna be. 

And that only certain situations  when I’m feeling him and he feeling me.

Wink.

Then this poem goes out to you.

Where ever you are I say thank you. 

For never compromising your family and if  the one you with don’t appreciate

Believe me,  I feel that I can be that.

Im not, looking for a dawg chasing every cat!

Where are you daddy Perspective on Kat Stacks

If anyone is following or has followed the Kat Stacks videos or fiasco, I see it a bit differently that the main stream public.  Ever since I heard about her and the hoopla going on around her actions I began to research the videos and try to find out who she is.  I really have empathy for this young misguided young woman.    The only reason why a person is like this is because something is very lacking in her life somewhere.  Look at the things she is saying and how very defensive she is in her video’s where she is giving out those rappers information.   Her body is held tightly and her stance says hurt and defensive.  When she talks it apparent she did not think or was not made to value education.  She doesn’t seem to have a father figure and her mother sounded just as ignorant as she does.    This girl needs something that she thought those rappers could provide.  It is know that Kat Stacks is not making it off her brains but used what she is apparently believing would get her all the things she was lacking in life by sleeping around.   For all the things she has done and thought to be proud of are the things that she had to depend on to get to a better situation in life.

Just like most people they are trying to search for that something they feel will make them complete.  She needs someone who cares what she does and is there for her.  Apparently she never had that or she would not have done those things.   She needs some self respect and she needs to know that her body is not the only way to get there.  

She was living in a fantasy world she created to become rich and famous and did not realize she will be forgotten and already is being for gotten.  I won’t remember  Kat Stacks for the  fiasco or the stupidity and  indiscretions she  has done all in the  search of fame and a better life.  What happens to a wild animal when its backed against a corner?  It starts fighting back with its instinct.   She only did what she figured she can do  to get out of the situation.  Her first instinct was to get with the first money train she could find until one worked.  When you have been starved and set before a buffet the first thing you do is want to eat and go for some of the  treasure chest that is in front of you.  That’s what she did.  I don’t like to say pity but I really do because she could have went a different route in her life and for her children if she only knew better.  Even her name lets you know her way of thinking  Kat Stacks  a name that she felt was going to be her claim to fame.  Kat as in  woman’s vagina and  Stacks as if  she felt her vagina was her claim to fame and fortune.  I many times read between the lines of actions instead of looking at only the actions I look for the reasons behind it.  I pray that one day really know what she needs.