Friday, April 8, 2011

Compliments and Blunt Truth


So yesterday my pheromones must have been throwing off hella vibes or I was looking extra beautiful or available or something because while i was out and about yesterday  I got more compliments and come ons that I have in a long while.   Of course it was an ego booster because what girl doesn't like to be acknowledged as beautiful and complimented on it by reasonably attractive men?

I have always been outspoken not one to beat around the bush and honest to a point when asked a question.  So as I sit in a restaurant waiting for my best friend to show up and have lunch with me  a guy walks past my table and does a double take.  He stops and tells me I am beautiful.  I smile and tell him thank you and that I appreciate the compliment.   So I am thinking he will just move on just like the others do that day, but he had other plans in mind.  He stands by my table and told me he liked what he saw and asked me do I have a boyfriend.  

I was a bit shocked but flattered of course and I answered that i did not.  So he then proceeded to ask me why is a beautiful woman like me single.  I hesitated a bit because my friend told me I need to not be so blunt with why i am single.  She has told me  maybe you should flirt a bit or go on a date before you spring it on them.   I though about it for a second and then decided hey might as well let him know in advance why I am single.  I looked him strait in the eyes and told him  " The main reason I am single is because i am celibate"

He looked at me  strangely and left without another word.  As he walked away I started laughing knowing he could hear me.  It was  so apparent after his reaction he must have thought I was an easy target.  He didn't even try for the graceful exit or any platitudes or even my table or food is waiting he just left.  Me and my friend had a good laugh about that and we laughed aloud  when he had to pass by our table to leave.
I guess he thought a few compliments would get him in my panties quick fast and in a hurry.  He was not expecting me to be so blunt about why I was single and since I took sex out of the immediate equation he had no reason to keep spitting his game on me.  I was not insulted I was more amused than anything because  he just proved why I was single.  

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Oh My God She is Celibate!


When I say I am celibate that doesn’t mean I am a prude
I have chosen to save myself and not give it up to any guy in the mood
When I say I am celibate it doesn’t mean I am a frigid bitch
I have decided to exercise discipline and not scratch my body’s every itch
When I say I am celibate it’s not because I hate sex
I have decided to save my love for the man I love the best
When I say I am celibate that doesn’t mean I am not open minded
I want to be free and do many things with a man with who I am binded
When I say that I am celibate I have chosen to know you more
Than our bodies meshing and orgasm impressing this is what he is good for
When I say I am celibate know it takes more than your bedroom score to impress.
I want the kind that can use his mind to know me intimately.
When I am say I am celibate  it should be a relief to you
At least you know you won’t be involved with a bug-a-boo
I have said I am celibate and that I won’t be easy to get
Now its up to God to send me the man who will appreciate everything past the sex!

Saturday, January 8, 2011


I change all the time my style never stays the same.
Change is good.









I change all the time my style never stays the same.
Change is good.